Sex tips for gay men
When I was little, my father would drag my sister and me out in the cold morning in camouflage outfits and orange hats to sit with him in a deer stand and practice shooting his gun. This was a necessity for a young boy in the South. While his tutelage never stuck, he might be surprised to learn that I still grew up to be a hunter. All I need is a drawstring shoulder bag carrying my keys, wallet, cell phone, and a douching bulb for emergency visits to the nearest bathroom. Depending on the environment — a dive bar versus a dance club, a bathhouse or a play party — I might be wearing more clothes or less, but the target is the same: men and anal sex. As gay men, a good portion of some of our lives will be dedicated to the art and craft of anal sex.
17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming
The 6 Secrets of Gay Anal Sex
We gay guys get a lot of press about being sex mongers ready to drop our trousers at the first opportunity to hit it with a ready and willing hottie. When, in reality, this unjust assumption has led to stereotypes that sexualize our identities and define us solely by our penises. Socio-political injustices aside, these beliefs can limit our opportunities for expanding our sexual repertoires to their true potential, interfering with our abilities to experience maximum sexual pleasure and intimacy. None of us are born instinctively knowing how to be great lovers. What follows are some sex tips that you may find helpful in taking your love life to that next level.
17 Tips for Being a Better Top
Unlike the "top" , the partner being penetrated during gay anal sex is referred to as the "bottom. Some associate a gay bottom with being the less dominate partner in a sexual or romantic relationship, but that's not always the case. Being the sexual bottom or bottoming is a preference and may differ from established dominance roles.
Let me state this at the beginning: I am a bottom. A marathon-sex, Preparation-H, take-dick-like-a-champ bottom. I tend to outlast tops. Ten tops looking for a bottom?